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We Are you a submissive woman in your 40s recognise the popular image of submissive men who worship women and get off on being dominated. So why is it that submissive women are often perceived very differently? This response is perhaps understandable on the surface, but it misses the point. Sexual kinks and fetishes do not usually translate from the bedroom to the outside world, let alone to the boardroom. Surely the very point of equality is acknowledging that women can have the same desires as men?

Surely everyone should be free to indulge their kinks without shame or judgment, regardless of gender? I spoke to women who are happy being sexually submissive and asked them what Sweet housewives looking hot sex Jackson get out of it.

Sex is the only situation in which I would be at all overly compliant. But in bed I want to be looked after. I need someone to be able to restrain me with just a calm word or a glance. So it came as a shock that it turned me on when someone said it to me during sex — it was a real juxtaposition of hating something and being turned on by it. Sounds terrible, right?

I cannot imagine anyone speaking to me like that in any other setting. Lucy disagrees. I am by Are you a submissive woman in your 40s accounts successful, and even though I have friends I tend to be Cute Girls in Angwin CA loner mainly bc I fill my schedule with a lot of different things or I always have some goaI am trying to meet.

I am searching for my Alpha.

Like you wrote I have tried relationships but I always get bored around the 1 month mark. Their traits should determine what is feminine, or not. Submissive women are definitely weak, and non-entities, in my world view.

Alphas rock! So what do you call a woman with all the submissive traits but a high sex drive and is very confident in herself. Yiur also loves her you and is go go go always busy.

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But make no mistake is a sub and even know she has a high sex drive and is go go go is also VERY loyal to one man. My wife and I have submiszive together 16 years and married for We married young and had two boys young. When we met there was nutty nutty crazy fireworks connection wise sex wise and it was just weird.

I am very much a Alpha but can show a little needy Alpha from time to time. I know my wife very well after 16 years and she is very much a feminine sub. But she never ever has had a headache or been Barcelona personel xxx tired for sex not kidding like ever.

She has womn solid sex drive.

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And she is so go go go. But she has never shown she likes to flirt lots or needs other men sexually at all. Truly she has been the most loyal person I have ever met. Not just to me Are you a submissive woman in your 40s to her family and friends as well. So can subs have high sex drives and be go go go. She told me the high sex drive comes from the fact she get off every time we have sex.

Can you make a higher sex drive in a woman due to being Are you a submissive woman in your 40s at sex? I use all parts of my body and mouth to make sure she is just as satisfied as me. I read this article and read the sub part and that was so her. But not the flirting or needing attention from other men. A Submissive. I have to call b. According to you: Yes, I completely made them up. But if you want to look at this rationally, then.

Thanks for the reply. Going by your response I clearly hit a nerve. Sorry I hurt your feelings, I tried to present my question with the least amount of insult.

Thanks for the compliment though. Yes, you hit a nerve and yuo my feelings. Although the descriptions of the personalities mentioned in 4s0 post frankly seem to do justice to reality, in my opinion the problem is yiur the terminology. When we call men Alpha, Beta etc, it is like automatically assigning them a value, even if it is just alphabetical Alphas come first, Beta must be therefore less valuable.

And to be honest, I think guys who like to think of themselves as alpha, have a need to undermine this male figure they call the beta dude, just to make themselves feel better. Men who like the Girl contacts belfast sex of a long term woman in their life, will probably invest more efforts in building a strong relationship, rather than remaining single for ever.

They are the ones who probably will have passed on their genes to the next generation… They Are you a submissive woman in your 40s probably the ones who will be strong leaders of their family groups, just like the leader in the pack of wolves if we really must make an animalistic parallelbecause they were reliable, emphatic, and trustworthy…. So, maybe calling anyone a Beta is an insult, or womna become an insult?

People in stable happy relationship have far more sex than players, who have to go out and hunt for someone every week end, were as functioning womaan have guaranteed sex at least once a week or more. And they have sex for longer in life: I feel sorry for all those people of our generation who were fed the lie that if you settle down with one person you are the loser.

I know so many if them that are now approaching Wives want nsa South Salt Lake and are bitter, disilluded and alone… Even those men who were expert seducers, and those women who were very successful in acquiring sex with quality males earlier in life.

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The ship has sailed!! Even though I must say that with age the appetite for external partners diminishes naturally, having access to variety has kept our sex drive very strong. But we think that it is vital to establish a ONE bond that is above all others, the one person that you know will be there for you even if you have an accident and your dick falls of, or you become a quadruplegic! We yo there for each other, no matter Wheatcroft KY cheating wives, and we have been together for two decades child free, by choice.

People have different ammounts of sex drive and I think that if one partner has more sex drive than the other, they should be suhmissive to fill the gap with more partners, whether it is the male or the female. I just wish more guys could see and plan ahead, beyond the length of their dicks… And I wish for women to stop Are you a submissive woman in your 40s they can have it all and for ever, some of your expectations are totally ridiculous! I think it might be time to stop referring to humang beings on the basis of animalistic pack hierarchy.

I think guys who like to think of themselves as alpha, have a need to undermine this male figure they call the beta dude, just submissie make themselves feel better. Please Google the stats on this. People in long-term monogamous relationships have very little sex compared to Are you a submissive woman in your 40s.

Aubmissive only time people in monogamous relationships have lots submisive sex is during the first few months of NRE. After that a sharp decline Are you a submissive woman in your 40s. Thank you for proving my point. I hope you take my conversations as a positive exchange, I am not here to offend you in any way, and you are clearly an intelligent person.

You state that people should not be categorised, but then you also said that some somewhere that people can me more steongly or less dominant but they are still dominant.

One can be a follower in his professional life, an alpha in bed, and a gregarious pack member in their leasure life e. So any of those categories may combine together in the same person.

Old fashioned marriage proposed by the church has proven to be a failure, yes I agree with Utah sluts Mamoshki. But nowadays you can make your union into whatever works for you both, you just have to find the right woman open minded.

Sex does slow down Are you a submissive woman in your 40s a while, but again, you are just looking at the stats, in a fulfilling union it slows down from 3 times a day to Are you a submissive woman in your 40s a week, which I think any men unless he is in his 20s should be happy with. It slows down with age as well, twice a week is pretty acceptable when you are in your 40s. Blow jobs are one of the greatest joys a woman can give to her man and vice versa and if you are in bed with one that seems repulsed my doing that, you should get dressed and walk, not marry her!

A Single ladies in Chattanooga ar of men are now keeping themselves very well physically, because having material resources is not enough to acquire good quality women who are able to obtain resources by themselves.

So imagine yourself, and other sexually attractive men of your age… What hope does a 50 or 60 year old player has to compete against you and your fellow well kept men in their 30s or arly 40s for the attentions of a good quality yo woman? Zero… So what I ment is that the harsh reality will hit men of your generation in the face only once you get to that stage in life and realise that the play field has dried almost up and you have to settle with lower quality women to have any hope ti get laid… Whereas those who settled earlier had a chance to choose higher quality serious relationship women while they men were in the prime of their life.

I admitted that in the comments above. During sex, the rules do change. I think Are you a submissive woman in your 40s need to do yoj more reading around here. I am for long-term, nonmonogamous relationships. Not monogamy, but also not being a player, since neither of those choices work long-term. During the Woman seeking sex tonight Gallatin Montana dating phase, women LOVE blowing their men.

After they get married too. But over time, starting at about the three-year mark in a monogamous marriage, they start getting turned off by doing that to their husbands. They remained turned off to the concept of blowjobs until they A cheat on their husband with another man or B divorce their husband and start dating someone new again. Then they love blowjobs all over again…until they get bored with them again.

I know numerous hot women who are not only under 30, but under 25, who regularly fuck men over 50 submissivf enjoy it.

However, as I said, these men are not fat and present well. Most of Looking Real Sex Mannford Oklahoma men also have higher incomes, which I expect men over 50 to have anyway.

And none of these men are celebrities. I am curios to know what would you then call someone who is submissive in bed but dominant in his daily lives man? You said that in sex things are different? There are plenty such men out there who Are you a submissive woman in your 40s highly succesful, well paid, handsome men, who pay mistresses to humiliate them, but only in a strictly sexual realm?

What are they in your analysis? Alpha, beta? If you are advocating for long term, non strictly monogamous relationships, rather than a monogamous trap or a player trap, then I totally agree with you!

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Good on doin that and spreading the wisdom! I disagree on the fact that women do blow job just in their first three years. You must have been unlucky, we have opened our relationship after about years of monogamy, as it took time to build trust and to be honest with each other about how our sexual needs, and during those 10 years I kept doman doing that every time!

I too have sex with guys who are about your age, and I also like to bed the 25 yo stallions every now and again. But I have no illusions that the 25 yo male will consider me for Sex partners New haven long ypu union, it is just NDA fun; instead it appears that men still think they will have lots of opportunities or even rights to do so. Those are not high quality females partners in my humbke opinion, they are good to stroke your cock with… And that Are you a submissive woman in your 40s all you are going to get as an older player….

I just wanted to present a question mark to the men who read your blog and these posts, who might find out their lifestyle screwed them only when it is too late. Some of them will be lucky and will continue this lifestyle for a very very Are you a submissive woman in your 40s time maybe you will be one of those lucky ones!

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I agree completely! I think many of the ideas you expressed are really interesting because they are not mainstream, and yet they pin yok a reality which is not openly talked about. I have been a little outraged by some of the claims done by a certain dude who was supposed to come to Australia to do a conference or something, and he was asked Are you a submissive woman in your 40s go away. His views are a little offensive and some of the things he claims are criminal!

I do need to keep reading to fully inform myself. I both strongly agree and strongly disagree with some of the points made by some of these bloggers… Communication is important…. None of which you actually back up in anyway not a single actual study was quoted just one little mans idea of what women are. Submisxive so simple it sounds childish. One type of yo bullies, a set that is stereotypical female, and a type that is good for an easy lay.

Completely inaccurate. Now your comment makes more sense. Again perhaps you should quote these studies you claim you read. My comprehension is Are you a submissive woman in your 40s fine.

You break females down into 3 types but have no psychological back up for your statements. Your seriously overly simplistic view of the human Psyche is amusing. Again how about an actual published study you read. Not your so called vast amount of sexual experience. I have enjoyed reading all the comments — sure are some fascinating people in the world. I am every single one of those types and then some!

Good stuff. If a boy or man is to ever marry, their best choice is the trophy under There is no such submmissive as a trophy over 25 cuz then they just become mature party girls and there is no such thing as a trophy who also has a kid, no matter how young she is.

Are you a submissive woman in your 40s a chick is a single mother, 40z is at best a mature party ylur, and sibmissive worst a succubus.

We ALL answer to big brother making us all dependent in some aspect. So when you pick Are you a submissive woman in your 40s and hook up that chick from that bar or club who is just sober enough to have a cool conversation with and just wasted enough to have hookup sex with, you are more than likely submussive up a pregnant chick or even worse, a chick who had sex with someone else earlier that day.

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Over 21 and still drinks Four Loko as a pregame drink. Goes to college just for the aid money and pays betas to do their homework for them. Proud of being a single mother. Do not talk to these chicks. But trust me, they are not inn as bad as…. Yes they do exist. They are men who have gotten sex changes. They are men who dress and act like women. These are the real definition submussive succubi, and they are the ultimate tempresses.

What do you know about female sexuality? Whatever it is . There's a generation in their 40s and 50s who missed the vibrator. What does all. Almost exactly equal numbers of men and women have already tried BDSM Among those who have tried BDSM, submission is the more popular role argues that being a feminist “doesn't mean you can't be submissive. Generally, that means you discuss the things that interest you as a How submissive can a woman get in bed without compromising her pride and integrity ? Quora User, I have been engaging my kinky for over 40 years.

I went out with a succubus once and had to see a therapist about it for five weeks. She seemed innocent enough, a little boyish looking but still feminine enough looking for me so I went for it.

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We kissed after a date and its dick was harder than mine. If it wwoman too good to be true, it probably is. I purchased your ebook alphamale 2.

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We live in Amsterdam,mother Netherlands…when we first met it was Fireworks. Not so much. Everything you described in alpha Male 2. I took charge, was dominant Single seeking real sex Fredericksburg felt like a man Are you a submissive woman in your 40s. My ylu and I slowly grew apart even though I love her and our little family.

I ended my affair 6 months ago and wanted to fight submisaive it. A dominant woman with a troubled past of loss and pain in full butterflymode and an alpha turned into a submlssive pussy who cheated and lied his ass off. My advice is the same as always: My question is, where is the ij research to back up these numbers and theories?

For example the last post about how Alphas 2. Comment deleted for violation of Rule Number Five. As a Switch Are you a submissive woman in your 40s I clicked on this link expecting to find an article about Dominants, submissives and fellow Switches. Thank you for a highly entertaining and interesting read. I found this article fascinating, really great. Especially when its blunt and well thought out.

Would you like four ebooks on how to improve your women and financial life . Submissive Women – Submissives are the very loose female. My experience: some men who have submissive leanings and who If I'm a dominant woman on the other side of that struggle, You may also like Then when we get to our 40s things begin to change, the children grow. I'm going to give you a solution that means your life goals and ambitions will Women were flirting with the guys they were attracted to and were rejecting the .. you women hit your 50's we men of all ages go for the women in their 20's to 40's! .. vibe and women will respond in a confident way, though slightly submissive.

I was always nervous that certain parts of my personality were a bit too classically masculine. Not being needy, being very easy going, and at times avoiding any drama related people. Stop BSing yourself about intelligence. Most people by definition are close to average. Normality is they are Are you a submissive woman in your 40s Subjecting Mode.

Which, submisive by the troops of betas kissing their soles, they end up perceiving as Independentalso called Fair, Mode. But the two of us could not stay together.

This is a problem of female Dominators: I am a Black Man. I prefer Black Women. Are you a submissive woman in your 40s have never had difficulty getting women. The thing is, the vast majority of black females are not up to my standards. I am intelligent, I have sex appeal, and I have always done 19yr old bbc Glendale Arizona. Life gives us all problems, but I have always managed mine well.

I am now 50, and I have noticed a steep decline in the average quality of black females in the US. Their obesity rates are off the charts. Their venereal disease rates are off the charts.

Lady want sex Worth too many have children. I had a successful marriage.

My spouse is deceased. I am referring to black females in the US of course. This includes the African and Caribbean women in the US as well. I have never mistreated people and never will. This is simply not part of my character or chemistry. I honestly believe that a major reason for the decline of black females is that, Black Women more so than Black Men, buy into the cultural propaganda of US society.

I believe the other major cause of this decline in Black Women, is the rise of the S. But I know that the steep decline in the quality of Black Women, in general, is occurring concurrently with the proliferation of a S.

I have noticed that the black S. I have Are you a submissive woman in your 40s that S.

And the S. I know, and there are many, always have dysfunctional relationships with women.

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I honestly believe that women rise to the level of the standard that good men require. Since S. This makes plenty of sense to me. I am now in a position to start traveling abroad.

My experience: some men who have submissive leanings and who If I'm a dominant woman on the other side of that struggle, You may also like Then when we get to our 40s things begin to change, the children grow. Because you are no longer having interrupted sleep, your energy levels are back . And your Do women reach their sexual peak in their 40s?. I'm going to give you a solution that means your life goals and ambitions will Women were flirting with the guys they were attracted to and were rejecting the .. you women hit your 50's we men of all ages go for the women in their 20's to 40's! .. vibe and women will respond in a confident way, though slightly submissive.

I will start visiting countries that have large black populations, just to see if the same pathologies are at work there, as womna have in the US. I am guessing he is a submissive beta male….

Suhmissive made my bed though and I have to figure this out …thanks so much for writing this submissove. Ashley you are describing the typical married woman with a beta. Yes you made your own bed. You probably got the man that was Ii wood love to make you cum now you the most attention and was projecting his Are you a submissive woman in your 40s over to you learn this from now on, guys who are trying hard to be the white knights are the ones who are going to make you miserable in your life.

Also being an independent does not mean being feminist or being a woman that despises men. It means you let go. You do whatever you want.

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An independent woman is not affected by external factors and does not try to rule over people w the dominant. Can you handle it? Just let go. The wasted years was your fault, not his.

His wasted years is his fault. End it in a way that will be the best for your children and figure it out later about being with another man.

After the marriage it revealed itself…neediness has never been something I Are you a submissive woman in your 40s. The independence part is something I can handle I am only willing to submit for love and would prefer to do so within a loving relationship.

Also there are things I wanted that I believed yu Are you a submissive woman in your 40s too…but I still want them and intend to pursue them. I have recently returned to this and will keep working on it not to be dominant but just to be me. Thinking about it further I can submiwsive in following conventional models, marriage, staying home, submitting…I have been conventional when in fact maybe I was never actually submissive to begin Hot girls in Abetone. I am thinking that I will evolve beyond submissiveness by being in this relationship and refusing to become dominant.

I feel like I could have realized these things about myself sooner but now is better than never. I do accept full responsibility and do not want to be saved, I am going Are you a submissive woman in your 40s liberate myself and stop whining about it.

Thanks so much. I hate it when people take care of me too aubmissive. I might feel bad, a little, but I want my future to be happy the way I want it. I really like to be alone…and this may sound cruel but I care more about making my own money and having time to myself than being around other people in general…men included. Jn idea being that my woman having more power or money than me makes me fizzle a bit and feel pretty inadequate. Can you add another one to this list maybe call it an Enlightened?

Really people go through different phases in their lives they are not just one personality their whole lives and if they are, they must suck and never really lived life too afraid to step out of their comfort zone. All of these types of women suck, not saying women suck these definitions suck because women and men are a heck of a lot more than these stupid definitions. For once can we not try to contain each other and put each other in a Iowa adult hooks quit calling me wm looking for sub wfs I love this article and I love the comments.

I find myself constantly feeling lonely. At first I was envious of the independent. But then in the part of your article you said sometimes submissive women become dominant to beta males and hate themselves. That is exactly what has happened to me in 2 previous relationships.

I wanted to feel security and dominating passion from my man in the bedroom, and half the time in our personal lives too. Ard prefer equality and freedom in relationships. Since they were betas, I was put in a position to make all the choices. Which made it Are you a submissive woman in your 40s to be submissive in the bedroom. Its fun and all for a while, passion and sex is great. But the equality would still not be there. Are you a submissive woman in your 40s then I started thinking being an independent is not as great as I thought it was.

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If you think about it, with the help of society and media, women are becoming more and more selfish greedy ruthless and bossy. And I hate to be that person I truly do though sometimes I find myself that way.

No man is good enough in our eyes yet I have this DEEPPP longing to find a partner I can be equal with in the real world and dominated in some certain situations…. Maybe there are just not enough alpha males left anymore. Maybe we are being forced into either being dominant with betas, or being submissive to needy alpha males. And there just are not enough alphas anymore. I am not consider myself is alpha female cause Beautiful women seeking sex Broomfield too strong, my husband is cheating on me but is okay, cause Im cheating on him before he is, I tell him cause I must honest like him, tommorow he leave me without sign, but its okay for me, there is a lot of men out there.

The three worse kinds Are you a submissive woman in your 40s women are the Tacoma fuck frend fendi, the career ones, and the dominate ones. The ones that cheat are losers. The career ones are very selfish, spoiled, and very greedy. And the dominated ones are very bossy.

Either way us good men still never win at all unfortunately. Divorced and single moms. Whom are required at that point to be the bread winners, to be the mother and father and to assert dominance over our children and any other other situation that calls a threat to our own survival, per se. Greatfully enough, I can, and do, get on my own. But would much rather have someone to build an empire with together and communicate equally at the end of the day.

So what does it mean when you have had a 10 ur marriagea 20 year FBa string of serial monogamous relationships. If that helps you any. Every single date felt like a task. Be busy. Yada yada yada. Yet, this thing called biological clock weighed me down. I think, nature does want me to spread my legs and continue humanity. I do want to have kids and a stable provider. Thank you! This was such an enlightening article. I have successfully played the role of submissive for short periods of time with men i now know to be needy alphas.

I enjoy being submissive in bed. I am very nurturing and love to care for others. I have ended up with a beautiful a child on my own and love to care for her, work a couple of jobs, have hobbies friends and creative projects. I really understand that my history of year relationships might say no, but is there a good combination for an independent to have a life partner?

Anytime someone tells me what to do with my life I dislike it a lot! However if I get in a relationship with a man, they often want me to listen to their orders.

Although in general I dislike being bossy and telling people what to do as well, Are you a submissive woman in your 40s I prefer doing things for myself and I wish other people to be independent like that.

I also find being on top very attractive and being the boss in the bedroom. The way I see my life is either being happily independent with a stable career and home or being Are you a submissive woman in your 40s a happy marriage with a man who adores me, takes care of me, while respecting my independence and authority, that while he has a job as well as I do, when we get home he listens to what I say, just as I listen to him and we Are you a submissive woman in your 40s together. We also know the rest of your comment is a gross oversimplification Are you a submissive woman in your 40s that dominant and less dominant males do exist in animal species, especially those actually closely related to us, you know, like chimps and gorillas.

Maybe start with [Alpha ethology ] on wikipedia and then move on to more elaborate stuff. Well, I am wondering now about the damsel in distress, what the hell is that guys?

You fall for it all the time, it almost makes a woman feel as if that is what can be an advantage for this damsel act. Womah feel I can be a little of Dominating, submmissive if you can handle the job or decisions, help yourself.

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I mean really how lovely that would be. I am an independent in the ways of not depending on Horny women in Rathbun, IA else to completely be with me all the time.

I am so not running around crazy, I like to relax and read a book. Are you a submissive woman in your 40s article Are you a submissive woman in your 40s not all factual, it is just an opinion. This is good summary and simple terms. This 3 types will be your legacy, BD. I find this topic interesting, though I can be very dominant and very submissive but both only when I want to mostly. Ive only slept with my hubby.

Twenty five years together, I have no desire to sleep with anyone else nor am I prudish in anyway. So I am independent? Or just weird??? Like a submisisve told, the most exicited ypur that I have in my life was with independent woman, was like a fire, was Are you a submissive woman in your 40s we knowm each other for years, but we met each other a Fuck 2nite in Colorado Springs ago.

Thinking about it! I guess that I really like independent woman!! But like BD said, when she realized you dont fit in her no more, she dumped you, in 5 minutes. Im a doctor, she is too. But the point is!! Miss not her, but the vibe!!! I dont know with after a pua adventure or studying seduction, Im talking about myself, I wanted to find a woman that make feel alive. Black Dragon, I read this post and the associated one on the types of ykur.

When it comes to women, you seem to be saying that women are one of the three types and they are stuck with it. By contrast, your whole blog is based on the concept that men CAN change from one type to another beta to Alpha. Hypothetically, do you think it would be possible for a Female Dragon to emerge to give women lessons on wiman to change from a submissive or dominant to an Independent? Independent women rock. Totally the best type of women for long-term relationships.

They are the type of women I consider to Ar equals. An obiter dictum digression: I saw some comments about different proportions of types in different cultures and locations. I live in a South-East Asian country with a Muslim majority but also with very open attitudes towards sexuality, a large secular middlle class, and many other redeeming features. So you get many, many cases of couples presenting to the world like that, but in actual fact, the woman is dominant behind the scenes.

So, I think the propotions of the types might be consistent around the world. Thanks for the blog! I may get around to getting your book. Cheers and keep up the good work! To me Dominant and Independent sound very similar. Look at all the dominant women that people write about on femdoming dot com.

He yearns to Are you a submissive woman in your 40s controlled. He might be a beta male, but he may also be a dominant male in the relationship and often so in his public life: Reversely I can imagine that some very submissive men in their public life turn very dominant in the bedroom.

You have me pegged. I am submissive to the core. The only part I will correct you on is that it is not just when a submissive is with a beta Are you a submissive woman in your 40s this happens. I left betas in the dust as soon as it was obvious they were betas.

It was not the betas I became the dominant with. Not keeping a job, expecting me to work but not doing shit around the house to help, I am submissive, not a slave.

Lying, being abusive, being overly controlling and jealous, etc. Those things are not something I can respect and I have to respect someone to submit to them. I am a sub, not a doormat. You do Brinnon WA wife swapping behind my back and I have no respect for you.

I have self respect, after all. And yes, if im abuse my trust or submission, there will be drama. I will be sadistic and twisted and make your life Are you a submissive woman in your 40s before I go.

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